Coaching or Therapy?
Spirit Coach #9
Dr. Kathi Ann Middendorf
Spiritually Based Personal and Profession Coach
(919) 363-8244 dr_kathi@msn.com


   
 

Dear Spirit Coach,
I am confused. I think I want to work with someone on parts of my life, but I don't think I need therapy. How do I know if I need therapy or coaching? Is there a difference? Jim

Dear Jim,
Thanks for asking this question. Yes, indeed, there is a difference between therapy and coaching. At one point when I was discussing this with a friend, I said that coaching is what people do after they have completed therapy but still want the experience of having a partner in working on their lives.

Many times in our lives, we are in our own flow and our lives are moving beautifully. At other times, we run into periods when we get stuck…when forward movement has ceased. It is at these times that people are likely to reach out to a coach…when they are ready to move to their own next level. Thomas Leonard, the founder of Coach University where I received my training, describes the difference between coaching and therapy as follows:

Coaching

Coaching is about achievement
Coaching is about action
Coaching is about transformation
Coaching is about momentum
Coaching is about intuition
Coaching is about joy
Coaching is about performance
Coaching is about synchronicity
Coaching is about attraction
Coaching is about creating

Therapy

Therapy is about healing
Therapy is about understanding
Therapy is about change
Therapy is about safety
Therapy is about feelings
Therapy is about happiness
Therapy is about progress
Therapy is about timing
Therapy is about protecting
Therapy is about resolving
   
 


If you have issues that require the help of a psychologist or psychiatrist, I believe coaching would be inappropriate for you at this time. Successful coaching requires that you are ready to take responsibility for all aspects of your life…that if stuff comes up in the process, you are ready to heal it and move forward…and if you are stuck, you are willing to look inward for the solution rather than outward to the world.

I hope that the above comparison helps you make your decision.

 

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